Easter blessings from UCAN
There is no more important week in the year for Christians than this Holy Week. We call it Holy because of the mystery we celebrate - God's gift of His son who loves us to his death on Calvary and beyond.
Because of that love, we wish each other Happy Easter even when we know there is a lot of tragedy about it - Good Friday. As Christians, we know that what we see happening with and in Jesus goes to the heart of what we know from our own experience of life.
At the Second Vatican Council, the Christian lives we all lead were described as being shares in the Paschal Mystery. We have our share in the death and resurrection of Jesus every day. Our lives are part of the Paschal Mystery.
At UCAN, we work to describe that mystery in the unfolding tragedies and astonishing blessings of the people we seek out and report, feature and comment on.
While at times deeply distressing work, this effort of ours gets its coherence in the same way the death of Jesus did - because of the astonishing grace of a God who never gives up on life and love.
Because of that, we can wish you Happy Easter.
Fr. Michael Kelly SJ
Stop the 'ragging' menace now
Torturing new undergraduates must stop instead of being a self-repeating and sometimes fatal practice
- Shane J. Alliew, Kolkata
- July 4, 2011
But three days after starting at college, he hanged himself.Â He had been a victim of bullying by fellow students, âraggingâ, as it is known in India; subjected by his seniors to a barrage of initiation ordeals and embarrassments, which included drinking his own urine.
The supreme court, which has put legislation in place that seeks to end the practice, defines ragging as âany disorderly conduct which has the effect of teasing, treating or handling with rudeness any other studentâ.
In earlier times and other cultures it would have simply been called âbullyingâ. An increasingly popular new word for it, imported from the U.S., is âhazingâ. Whatever it is called, it continues to be rampant. And as they pack their bags to leave home and study in another state or city, an unsettling question lurks at the back of many studentsâ minds: âwill I be ragged?â
The court pays particular attention to the custom of humiliating new students, under the guise of initiating them, by stating that ârowdy or indisciplined activitiesâ which may cause âannoyance, hardship or psychological harmâ or raise âfear or apprehension in a fresher or a junior studentâ fall under the purview of ragging.
It goes on to say that so-called gestures of friendliness often cross âlimits of decency, morality and humanityâ when senior students attempt to Â welcome freshers in a âdifferent mannerâ.
The law also makes it clear that âmanagement must take a responsibility to curb ragging and to generate confidence in the mind of students.âÂ Errant institutions who do not apply robust anti-ragging policies can be taken to task, to the extent of their grants and recognitions being withheld or even withdrawn.
Yet despite these measures, Prasun Vohraâs death is by no means an isolated incident. Worse still, along with the many registered cases, many more never see the light of day.
It is widely believed that educational institutions cover up cases to protect their reputation and, of course, because of monetary factors.
Victimized students have been known to have their silence bought, with promises of better facilities and privileges, whitewash inquires and even private settlements. All too often, they never even bring the bullying incident out into the open, preferring to suffer than to be the odd one out and risk more humiliation. Itâs an understandable survival strategy and most students see just one other option, which is to quit.
The most perplexing question is: why does it go on?
Is it a case of deriving pleasure? Is it about making a show of power and superiority? In fact it is a combination of both those elements in different measures, according to psychologists, counselors and social workers.
Unresolved issues in the family and the pressures of living in 21st century society can all engender depression, frustration and ultimately aggression in an individual.
Of course it is also rather fashionable to be seen as an âangry young manâ. And once seen in that light, an individual can find himself under peer pressure to live up to the image.
Then there is the current obsession with socio-economics, which creates much of the arrogance in todayâs world; a world driven by the power of money, position and status Â which counts above all else and means that one who has them can do no wrong. âMy parent is a celebrity so nothing will happen to me,â thinks the child of someone famous. Then, when trouble ensues they demand: "Do you know who my parent is?"
When this yearâs fresher victims become next yearâs senior torturers there is also the simple motive of getting revenge. It could be characterized as âjust traditionâ but psychologists would say itâs about being the good guy and the bad guy at the same time: âI will embarrass you, but later share my notes with you and induce you into my group.â
But most students who have been ragged share the view that the individual who presents himself as the âbig boss,â the one with the power, is weak in his mind. If he vents his aggression and violence, he is only settling scores for the atrocities done to him.
So the answer is as clear as water in a glass- stop it now! Take a stand and donât repeat, or allow others to repeat, what has taken place in the past.
Shane J Alliew is a quizmaster, presenter of shows, communicator and is involved with research and writing.Â An ardent social worker, he is a committee member of CAISS.