Easter blessings from UCAN
There is no more important week in the year for Christians than this Holy Week. We call it Holy because of the mystery we celebrate - God's gift of His son who loves us to his death on Calvary and beyond.
Because of that love, we wish each other Happy Easter even when we know there is a lot of tragedy about it - Good Friday. As Christians, we know that what we see happening with and in Jesus goes to the heart of what we know from our own experience of life.
At the Second Vatican Council, the Christian lives we all lead were described as being shares in the Paschal Mystery. We have our share in the death and resurrection of Jesus every day. Our lives are part of the Paschal Mystery.
At UCAN, we work to describe that mystery in the unfolding tragedies and astonishing blessings of the people we seek out and report, feature and comment on.
While at times deeply distressing work, this effort of ours gets its coherence in the same way the death of Jesus did - because of the astonishing grace of a God who never gives up on life and love.
Because of that, we can wish you Happy Easter.
Fr. Michael Kelly SJ
Rural girls remain targets for child brides
Rural child marriage a problem in BangladeshBangladesh has one of the worldâs highest rates of child marriage (Photo: Chandan Robert Rebeiro)
- ucanews.com reporter, Dhaka
- June 28, 2012
âIâve seen many very young mothers come here to give birth,â says a gynecologist at Dhaka Medical College and Hospital. âOften they face extensive bleeding, resulting in the death of the mother or the child, sometimes both of them. The children born of premature mothers have a slow growth rate and the mothers suffer from anemia.â
Over the last decade, the government and agencies such as UNICEF have waged war on the practice, demanding stricter enforcement of an existing law â passed as long ago as 1929 - that makes child marriage a criminal offense.
More positively, since the 1990s, the government has been offering grants to pay for girlsâ education up to higher secondary level.
Despite these efforts, recurring reports from the media and international agencies claim that child marriage is still very much a reality.
According to Plan International, an agency that works for childrenâs rights, Bangladesh still has one of the highest rates in the world, with 20 percent of females becoming brides before their 15th birthday. UNICEF estimates that about 66 percentÂ of the countryâs adult women were married before they were 18.
In most cases, parents say they know it is illegal but they are forced to do it because of poverty and worries over their daughtersâ future security.
There is also the concept that rural girls are considered a burden in many families because they rarely bring in a regular income.
âI couldnât continue my studies after grade two and used to work at home, taking care of my brothers and sisters. Then suddenly, my marriage was fixed and I had to accept the family decision,â says one woman who married at 13.
In recent years, an even more sinister factor has emerged: as stalking and rape cases have risen rapidly, especially in rural areas where the rule of law is lax, parents have become anxious to get their daughter married early to save âfamily honor.â
âMy daughter was beautiful and she had to face stalking from local delinquents on her way to school. So we gave her away in marriage,â says Amena Begum. Her daughter was one of a group of 11 girls aged 12 to 14 who were married last month in a remote village in the southwestern Patuakhali district.
Nahid Sultana, program officer at the Women and Children Affairs Ministry, describes child marriage as âa clear violation of childrenâs rights,â and insists that the government is working hard to eradicate it.
âWe conduct formal meetings and run youth groups in various districts regularly,â she says. We teach parents and children how to live without the dowry system and combat stalking. And on any issue regarding child marriage, we offer legal support.â
But Juliet Lipika Sarkar, a worker with Caritas, warns that tradition will provide the sternest challenge to the reformers. âChild marriage is a social custom among rural people and some of them want to continue it as a part of their culture,â she says. âIt will take time to completely uproot it.â
Parents warn against underage marriage