Alarm over a rise in the number of troubled marriages has prompted the Church to encourage its counselors to do more to reconcile Catholic couples and help strengthen family life. The Episcopal Commission for Family Life held a seminar for counselors to come up with ways of dealing with various issues that can cause marital breakdowns and potential tragedy. More than 70 counselors attended the seminar at the bishops’ conference center in Dhaka July 27-29. Domestic violence cases nationwide have become commonplace, with many ending tragically either with murder or suicide. Many cases in cities are reported in the local media. But it’s estimated a large number go unreported in impoverished rural areas. In one extreme case, recently, a Catholic man beat his wife to death in Dharenda parish, 24 kilometers northwest of Dhaka and tried to cover up the crime by suspending the body from a ceiling fan to make it look like suicide. The killing resulted from the husband’s demands for money from his father-in-law, which his wife objected to. These cases can involve families from all religions. Participants identified some of the main causes and were told to be more vigilant and efficient in dealing with them. “At least 25 percent are attributed to a poor sex life, while jealousy and drug addiction are other major causes,” said Sandhya Peris, a counselor. “We taught counselors some basic methods in how to deal with these family problems,” Father David S. Gomes, the commission secretary said. "We also told them to become good listeners and be patient before offering advice to couples,” he added. Related Reports:Marriage tribunals ‘need upgrade’After the wedding the work beginsMarriage counselors in Dhaka get role boost